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Mohd Syaza Bin Omar, Husband - 23
Rosediana Afiqah Binti Ahmad Saifudin, Wife - 22,
Mohd Akmal Bin Mohd Syaza - 1 Year and 5 Months.
Kedua-dua pasangan ini adalah pelajar dalam jurusan Kejuruteraan.
Ikuti beberapa soalan yang diajukan dan jawapan yang mungkin boleh membuka minda kita untuk memikirkan tentang kahwin awal.
Marriage at the age of???
Husband: 20 years old
Wife: 19 years old.
Arranged marriage or your own choice??
Husband: Both. Of course my choice and my family agree with it.
Wife: Smiling at ther husband.
Why early marriage??
Husband: - - - ... -- - -
Wife: Smiling again..
Why early marriage??? (Repeated)
Husband: It is fated. Things that we cannot delay even a second. .which is marriage, solah and death.
Wife: Just admit it and smiling.
How did you get the strength to get married at the early age???
Husband: We we are confidence to do so. If you think you want to have a relationship with someone but at the same time, you feel he/she is not your future spouses, whats the point?? But, if you this is your future spouses, then just get married. Don't make a lots of sin.
How to make a desicion to get married while studying??
Wife: I have no idea. He treatened me.. (Kidding)
Husband: Ok. . . (kidding).
Husband: Mostlty because of support from family and friends. They say that we are suit together. They Okay..
Family respond??
Husband: The wife's side quite excited..but at my side, it quite hard..but after married then, we can say ok or not. Its totally Ok.
The dare to take the risk??
Husband: People will say that I will fall in love other beautiful women at my college, but for me, handsome guys and beautiful ladies, won't finished out there.. If we married at age 40, then, after 5 months, we meet someone more beautiful that ours, its nothings to compare here.. =) (Kalau kawin umo 40, pastu, lepas 5 bulan, jmpak plak makwe cntik...haa.. sama ja ngn situasi die.. katenye laaa.)
And, we get married not because to get divorced after that.
How long did you both know each other before married? and where??
Husband: 2 years, at night market, UIA.
Family respond?? (Again)
Wife: Biase jee..
It is a norm in your family??
Husband and Wife: Nope. But our mom married at the early age.
Conditions to get married early from family??
Husband: Its about give and take. The condition is I have to finish up my study and my study have to be support by my family. But, my family matter, will support by me.
How is your social life as a student??
Husband: Much easier, but hard partly do make a group discussion etc.
Problem faced after married?
Wife: Mulut orang.."apasal kawin awa? gatal sgt kee.. "
Husband: Yes.. People perception, .. "You are seem impatient to get married??".. Then, if we late married, x laku kee? So??... Payah juge..
Other problem??
Husband: Point at their son.. byk meragam..but its normal.. Son rite...Em, so far, xde masalah besar3 lagi laa..
How did you support your family??
Husband: Dont dare to say.. its Allah sustenance. Its everywhere.. So far, x penah xmakan lagi laa..
Where do you live currently??
Husband: Sri Gombak..tgh cari umah sewa..
Where did you lived just after you get married??
Husband: Live with mak.. but feels xbest..so, cari umah sewa. Conflict ni selalu berlaku di kedua-dua blah pihak.. wife and husband.. If family xbebunyi, org lain plak bunyi..
Peerss???
Husband: Give and take.. Friends always understand my limit with them. .Ada jgk time nak lepak3 smpai malam.. Ok je..
Financial management??
Husband: PT.. PTPTN.. one head rm3500.. Believe it or not, one sem we both just use one head punye PT jee.. one head lagi kami xkacau.. We pay and do the important things first.. Pay the U fee, insurance and car..about car, we paid for 3 or 4 months terus.. Pastu, makan pikir lain.. haa, time tu baru tarik sikit2 yg lg satu kepalanye PT.. control laa.. The different, dlu suka shopping, skang kena kurangkan skit laa..
Apa yg penting, rezeki kahwin, rezeki anak, jgn dipertikaikan.. InsyaAllah ada.
Advantages of early marriage and luxury?
Husband: Korang ada htang PT an?? Aku pon ada hutang PT.. actually, bnda ni simple jaa.. makan apa yang ada, jangan cari apa yang xda.. Em..pasal avantages.. ok, lepas kita grad, kita semua akan pikir, keja, cari transportation utk g keje,rumah and settle PTPTN..then kawen, n pkir pasal anak.. em..tgk cam kitorang, sume kami dah skip kecuali PTPTN..so, nnt, kmi just focus nak settle PTPTN la...korang??
How confident you are about your parenting skills??
Wife: I dont know how to say.. Its comes naturally..Buat kerja rumah, tu biasa la, prmpuan an..
Husband: Yes.
The ability to manage your family while being a student?
Wife: I think about that too. But, i do Tawakal. Plus my friends always do support me.
How you motivate yourself to face those who objects??
Wife: Iktikad.. Show them that we can.
Do you think you are qualified enough to be a parent??
Husband: Like I said before.. its comes naturally.. And it is our instinct..
Wife: Sometimes we cant believe that we are parent now.
Did you plan before having child?
Husband: First2 ada jgk.. tapi bila attended kursus kawen, ad sorg ustaz tu cakap, better jangan..
Wife: Takut tak dapat anak..
Husband added: The problems, better we know early than know it late.
So, do you think early married is blessing??
Husband: Sama jaa..Every marriage is blessing.
Wife: (Smile..)
Advises those whoe interested in early marriage...
Husband: Sape3 nak kawen awal tu kan.. better ukur baju badan sendiri. Kewangan bukan satu masalah. Masalah paling besar ialah tnaggjawab dan cara untuk selesaikan masalah.
Wife: For student.. Time management. Sometimes we feels like we dont have enough times..So, we must pndai2 laa..
Husband:In short.. ukur baju badan sendiri la.. Kalau nak kawen setakat nak kawen, xyah laa..
Wife: Yes.. plus when we early marriage ni.. we can realize our parent punye kesusahan.. kite akan sedar awal laaa..
So, can we change our mind set??
Yes, early marriage is a blessing and sweet.
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